When I received Urban Decay's Rollergirl Nail Kit, I was mesmerized by Woodstock, a neon pink that could almost glow in the dark. As I studied the colors more, Miss T stood out to me, mostly because it reminds me of MAC's Pink Pearl pigment but in nail polish form (and don't think i hadn't tried to DIY this color myself. I did and failed).

I applied Miss T on Sunday with two thick coats, since I'm completely incapable of applying anything else. Generally, I polish my nails with the skills of an uncoordinated four year old - aka slather the polish all over my skin and then use a nail brush it the shower the next morning to scrub it off. Since I applied the healthy top coat of Seche Vite that same day, I haven't touched my nails. In fact, polish is almost as perfect today as it was on the day it was applied. Color me mystified.

Miss T is a special pearlized pink. The kind of shade that shows hints of purple mixed with a strong, feminine pink sizzling with pearl but not in an obnoxious way. This color was clearly created by an expert and is exactly the kind of polish that will distract you as pound away on your keyboard in the midst of spreadsheet Candyland.

Miss T and Woodstock are exclusively available in Urban Decay's Rollergirl Nail Kit, a set of six mini nail polishes for $28. Hey, isn't that less than the bottle of one Chanel polish?

Do you ever have one of those mornings where it feels like you're struck with divine inspiration while in the shower? For the longest time, I thought I was so strange for coming up with my best ideas in the shower, until so many others shared they also have a similar experience. Tuesday morning, the idea for this look came to me - in those moments, it made a lot of sense. Naturally, there were moments throughout the day that made me reconsider my choices, however I have to say that moving outside of my comfort zone was such a liberating exercise for me. Be little ridiculous. Mix up some prints. Wear a giant bow. What's the worst that could happen?

Sunnies: DKNY

Scarf: Brenda Novak x Hayden Harnett (styling inspred by the Louis Vuitton eyewear ads)

Striped tee: Old Navy

Printed skirt: Lane Bryant

White studded handbag: Jessica Simpson Collection

Silver Cuff: Ted Rossi (birthday gift!)

Ring: Palladium Deisgn Project

Navy patent flats: Classiques Entier

Lipstick: MAC's Ruby Woo

Photo by Nicaila

When life gets especially crazy, sometimes it's the simplest pleasures that yield the highest reward. It's been a hectic week and there is absolutely nothing that I love more than spending a weekend in, relaxing and reorganizing, so that on Monday I can begin again. Naturally, part of my weekend involves a great cup of coffee and fashion magazines, but in the heat of the summer, there is no way I'm consuming hot liquids.

After I received my Keurig Platinum Brewing System at Robert Verdi's Mother's Day Tweetup, I went a little crazy shopping for K-Cups. I loved all the flavor, brew and tea options, plus I loved the idea that I didn't have to drink the same type of coffee every day until the cannister was finished. After all, a gal needs options.

This was when I discovered the French Vanilla Iced Coffe K-Cup. Could I really make my regular summer Starbucks order of choice at home? The simple answer is yes.

Just now, I brewed a very large cup for myself. I used the largest mug setting on the brewer, poured a packet of Steevia into my venti sized Starbucks iced coffee cup and hit the brew button. After I let the cofee cool for a few minutes (it brews hot), I dropped as many ice cubes in as my tumbler would hold. As much as I hate to admit it, I enjoy it more than the Starbucks version.

When the weather isn't behaving, I became as grateful for my Keurig as I was the day I brought it home. For me, it's one of life's little luxuries.

What have you done for yourself today?

While on the way home from tonight's Fashion 2.0 event, I saw a post in my Twitter timeline that chilled me to the core. Gabi, of (formerly) Young, Fat and Fabulous, has come under fire from the plus size community for....being an individual. Allow me to elaborate.

The plus size blogging community doesn't operate in the same way that other blogging communities that I'm a member of operate (ie, fashion, beauty, tech). While honestly I haven't attended as many plus size events as I have mainstream fashion and beauty events, I must admit that I have never felt the same level of respect, warmth and inclusion from the plus size community as I have from the others. Don't get me wrong, there are some perfectly wonderful plus bloggers, some of whom I am privileged enough to call friends, however there is a group that might as well be sitting at The Plastics table on the set of Mean Girls.

In theory, we've all created these little homes for ourselves on the internet, where we invite our readers in for tea, cookies and a bit of our daily lives. While many of us started blogging for the sake of sharing or as a creative outlet, for many of us blogging has become a business. Naturally, within every business field there's bound to be competition, however I've always said that online, we're not really competing with one another, we're competing against ourselves and in most cases, this holds true. Except, in my experience, within the plus size community.

It's not all the community's fault. We've struggled for so long within society to be accepted and that desire for acceptance has naturally extended online. When plus brands realized the power of our thousands, nay millions, of collective readers, they obviously wanted to capitalize on the opportunities to reach new customers. Who can blame them?

The problem (and precisely what Gabi is being faulted for) is that not every brand is worthy of a mention. Not every event is worthy of attending. It is our job - actually our responsibility - to be the editor in which so many of us claim to be. To see as many lines as we can, to experience everything we can experience for our readers so they don't have to. At some point, however, you have to apply the law of diminishing returns. When events/brands/etc have consistently underperformed or failed to meet your expectations, it's time to consider putting your energy into finding what's next.

What has become acceptible in the communty, not only from other bloggers but also brands, is that we've become so hungry for that acceptance and to receive and achieve the opportunities of mainstream fashion, that we've forgotten to uphold standards and principles along the way. There are those within the communtiy that repost every press release they receive. Attend or promote any event with the words "plus size" or "fatshion" attached. How do I know? Because my inbox is filled daily with the same information, 99% of which I deem not worthy of my time or yours.

Every blogger has a style, however I encourage every one of my peers, not just those within the plus community, to examine the possible repercussions of your actions. What are you saying to brands by republishing their press releases? What are you saying to brands when you enter a competition to be selected to attend a blogging conference? What are you saying to brands by competing against your colleagues for a $600 bejeweled bra and asking what it is that you can do to help that brand?

These actions allow these brands, pr agencies and even our readers to believe that we deserve less than. That every garment/designer/event/thought/outfit is worthy of sharing? That, because we're so desperate to be accepted or generate advertising revenue, we'll become a mouthpiece for every campagin/giveaway/marketing stunt that has ever been dreamt? Set a new standard. Believe that we all deserve better. And, for all that is good and created by Chanel, have an opinion.

Jeffrey Campbell 'Situation' Pump

$124.95$61.90 by Jeffrey Campbell at Nordstrom

While performing my weekend ritual - aka laying in bed with my laptop and hitting all the shopping sites that never let me down - I happened upon the sweetest pump you'd never expect me to wear. If we're being honest, I love everything about the Jeffrey Campbell Situation pump (except the name). Naturally, I ordered them immediately.

These pumps are truly everything that I could want in a shoe. A sane heel (also known as anything 3" or below), a pointy toe and a classic color combination. I may even be wearing them as I type this. Sizing tip: I do have to say that they do run a smidge on the small side and are a bit narrow (as most pointy toes tend to be).

Fast forward to 6 or so weeks later as I'm performing my weekend ritual, browsing Nordstrom and I'm shocked to discover that not only is this style still available, but it's also 50% off.

What was that? You're welcome.

Yesterday was a special day for me.  If you've been reading this site long enough (and bless you, if you have) you'll remember that back in the early days of On The Plus Side, my beloved friend (and coworker) Kimberley Williamson was supportive, encouraging and most importantly - readily available with her camera. Since I've moved on and she's given birth to darling twin boys....let's just say that our lives have become far more complicated. Yesterday we spent a little time together in Union Square Park so naturally, I dressed for the occasion. It was so nice to revisit how it all started.

All day, people kept complimenting me on my "dress" - my look was constructed out of an awkward length skirt that I decided should be worn high waisted and a tee that's just a smidge too short. Sometimes, if you're lucky, you can take piece that aren't working and make magic by putting them together. Get creative!

Outfit details:

Lipstick earrings: Danielle Scutt for Topshop

Leopard tee: Norma Kamali for Walmart (style no longer available online, others here)

Skirt: Randomly acquired at TJ Mxx

Flats: Nine West

Rose gold watch: Michael Michael Kors

Lipstick: MAC's Lady Danger & Neon Orange (mixed)

Photo by Kimberley Williamson

Looking for an excuse to spend an evening with a long list of the fashion industry's latest and greatest? Join the Fashion Delivers Charitable Foundation at Pay It Fashion Forward tomorrow night, where designer Steven Alan, Paper Magazine's Mickey Boardman, supermodel Coco Rocha, designer Rachel Roy and stylist Mary Alice Stephenson are being honored for positive work within their communities.

Fashion Delivers is an amazing organization that in just 5 years has raised over $75 million in product donations for those in need and is supported by over 500 of today's biggest retail companies.

Want to party the night away for a great cause? There are two ticket options still available:

General Admission: $80 (includes 3 hour open bar provided by Asahi, Honest Tea, The Patron Spirits and Perrier; snacks provided by popchips; option to Make Your Own Havaianas and create a customized electronic postcard via the Keshot internet photobooth; $30 is tax deductible)

VIP: $200 (includes General Admission items plus bottle service, passed hors d'oeuvres, red carpet access, VIP entrance at 190 Allen Street , VIP giftbag while supplies last; $150 is tax deductible)

If you aren't able to attend the event, donations are greatly appreciated.

For more information and to get your ticket, please visit the event page at Fashion Delivers. Hope to see you there!

Nicholas K SPRING 2011 SAMPLE SALE INFO:

Dates and time:

June 16th (Thursday) 5-9pm

June 17th (Friday) 5-9pm

June 18th (Saturday) 1-7pm

June 19th (Sunday) 1-7pm

June 20th (Monday) 5-9pm

Location:

150 Varick Street 6th Floor (Between Vandam and Spring)

Some items that will be offered:

Men’s:

Devi Vest - retail: $916, sample sale price: $360

Kiefer Jacket - retail: $389, sample sale price: $150

Lowell Zipfront – retail: $299, sample sale price: $120

Women’s:

Talon Sweater- retail: $288, sample sale price: $120

Slade Jacket - retail: $419, sample sale price: $160

Anthro Jacket - retail: $419, sample sale price: $160

Kip Dress - retail: $299, sample sale price: $120

***Samples under $100 / Overstock 50-60% off / Vintage clothing***

Throughout the sale: - DJ sets curated by Fool’s Gold Records - Food by Eddie Huang (Baohaus)